between TWO words!!!
long time ago, when I was a young girl- till now-, trying to avoid an issue.. which I guess all girls did and still do the same thing… I don't know what the reason is ……. is it the fear of the unknown future, or the unknown person, or the fear of the wrong choice and decision which we have to take …
I am not talking about a decision on a career, or a promotion … or even buying a house or a car..
No …… no…..i know , I have been talking mysteriously .. but i am trying to let u think with me, and put ur self in a situation where u are afraid of the decision that will definitely change ur whole life, ur life as being a single…which as soon as u say "I DO" , will turn into a couple life….a life which u have a partner, a second side to share, care, and think of….
******* Yes I do………………. No , I donot
If you said NO, I DONOT" ………. till when ur NOs will be listened to . … till u r over 28-30………ok there maybe a small chance for u,, but not compared to the ones u had when u were in ur twenties…….
If "YES",,,,,,,, are u sure???? …….. is he MR. right…….is he ur charming prince………. The one with the white horse………ok…..ok … I believe that I am letting my imagination going on and on ,,,,,,however it is not my fault….it's Hollywood romantic movies , plus 3beer's novels !!!
Are you asking ur self, why the hell she brought up this issue?
Because
Because
Because………. Iam in an unstable state of mind…. I am confused between 2 extremely important words………….YES …….NO…….
Yeah, u got it……… 2 days ago ,some one has proposed… he is almost perfect……..and the flaws that encourage me to say NO are few…..not really few….but there are not any…
I know I am still young to get married, I am 20 going 21 on March…. nevertheless , the thing that stopping me from saying no is……well ….are, kids, family, love, and finding my half part, or my soul mate…
Am I acting as a kid??..... that is what mom says about me….. i do not blame her, coz she want to see her eldest daughter wearing white, holding and being hugged by a caring, considerate husband……
When I go shopping and I see a happy family, their children playing around them, and every body is smiling and having a good time, I wish them the best, and I wish that one day I will have exactly what they are having…… I love kids, I love to be a mom and a wife, I wish to have my own family….
This is it for now, I will go and pray ist5ara ….and I will let u know of my decision…
Hey
Its the little things that matter, look at the little things in a man.
Its a big choice no one could tell you that its not or make it sound easy to choose a person that you'll commit to for the rest of your life.
Take your time and do not make hasty decision whether negative or positive. Give him time to prove himself a good man worthy of your love and self.
Think of the future, its not just the man.. its the family of the man and his relationship with them, its part of his personality that you look at his relations with people around him. You'll be part of his personality; see if he is the one whom you fit into.
:)
Posted by
antihero |
11:24 PM
Guys, u r the best councils i ever had.... u helped me a lot with those valuable, priceless advices.... i will take them into consideration.. though u were talking about silly, unimportant ,and " trifles" things, but they are the basics which any new life will be built on... ...
Hours ago i were so confused and hesitated, however now i am very sure and certain about the decision which i will make soon inshallah ...
Thanx guys,,,, wish u the best .
See ya soon
Posted by
felicityq8 |
12:25 PM