What my " F " letter stands for??
When you got hurt by someone who
you care of, love and appreciate,
it will be the biggest dilemma and
most horrible thing to be done by him\her
you will have two choices either to
" FORGIVE ..........OR ............FORGET "
however both choices are difficult and uneasy to achieve
because to forgive you have to be
strong ,forgetful, faithful, and trustful.
But when you decide to forget –him\her-
You will live the rest of your life questioning how could you desert them,
Questioning wither it was
A good , correct thing to do.. you will live in doubts, and fears of this step, asking your self " was it the right thing to do" ….
Hello felicityq8! :)
A lady got to do what a lady got to do! Those are the times of definitions. To yourself first, then to others. It's all about deeds.
Hung On! ;)
Posted by
Anonymous |
12:11 PM
hey joan :)
well said dear ...
Posted by
felicityq8 |
2:54 PM
. + . * . * .
* . رمضان + +
. * كريم. * .
+ . * + . *
أجمل التهاني...وأحلى الأماني... بحلول شهر رمضان المبارك :)
Posted by
Anonymous |
6:02 AM
ثانكس حياتي و كل عام و انتي بخير... و الله يبلغنا رمضان ايمانا و احتسابا
Posted by
felicityq8 |
11:21 AM
Hey felicity :)
Why forgive?
Because we have the choice to leave them.. be indifferent to them or just "forget" them. It is because we have this choice that we forgive.
العفو عند المقدرة
But if you forget
one day.. you'll realize it was so stupid a reason. It may not be so today; but we grow and become more mature and grow out of our old trivial matters and habits.
Forgive
one never regrets forgiving someone..
Posted by
antihero |
6:41 AM
hey hero ;)
long time no see....
i like the phrase where u said "one never regrets forgiving someone"... it is a noble and true understanding , however there are few ppl who are commitment to it, and i wish i be one of them...
t.c :)
Posted by
felicityq8 |
1:55 AM
To forgive, Felicity, is not to forget really. We're humans, even if we try to forget what they have done to us; it'll be buried in our subconscious. It'll float to our conscious mind the moment they test us again with what upset us.
To forgive and forget... that's just beyond our capabilities. And its not worth trying with people.. there's no one out there who you could trust 100%.. at all. They'll betray our trust either consciously or unconsciously.. with or without a good intention. Out of love or out of hatred.
Forgive and have life go on..
إذا كنت في كل الأمور معاتبا
صديقك, لم تلق الذي تعاتبه
وإن أنت لم تشرب مرارا على القذى
ظمئت وأي الناس تصفو مشاربه؟
بشار بن برد
Posted by
antihero |
1:35 PM
hero, u keep impressing me with ur strong, good quotations...
i already took ur advice :
** Forgive and have life go on**
and it worked with me, though some times i feel that i have been hurt...
but, life is never fair ...
Posted by
felicityq8 |
4:42 PM